I was coaching an executive at a client company, when I heard myself unexpectedly say the following and had to write it down quickly to avoid forgetting:
“The fewer dead bodies you leave on the road to your success,
the fewer ghosts will haunt your future.”
Clearly, you would never kill to win, nor would you use someone’s literal head as a stairstep to your success. However, be careful, cautious and cognizant. 1) Dead bodies can be produced either intentionally or accidentally, and 2) Literal death is only one type; there is also the figurative or metaphorical kind—people die of shame, a broken heart, discouragement and the like.
In all your personal hopes, aspirations and ambitions, pursue the kind of success that has sustainable, objective worth—the kind that makes others better, serves others and delivers value that goes far beyond the benefit of you and your family. Help the needy. Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought to think. As much as is in your power, keep peace with all mankind.
QUESTIONS:
How do you avoid unintentional dead bodies in the road? Some people are just extra sensitive and get hurt without your intending harm. And how do you seek to please everyone without standing for nothing? Are dead bodies really avoidable?
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In the pursuit of success, ethical considerations are paramount. To avoid unintentional “dead bodies,” as difficult it is to sometimes remember it’s important to recognize the potential consequences of your actions and choices. Pleasing everyone is an impossible task, but striving to act with integrity and compassion can help navigate interpersonal relationships instead of aiming for universal approval which isn’t feasible it’s better to focus on upholding principles that align with your own values and hopefully still foster an environment that’s conducive to all
I have already identified a crucial aspect of navigating success with integrity being mindful of how my actions impact others and striving for actions that benefit not just yourself, but those around you. While it’s true that some people may be more sensitive and get hurt unintentionally, maintaining open communication, empathy, and humility can help minimize unintended harm. Seeking to please everyone isn’t realistic or sustainable, but standing for values that prioritize respect, empathy, and ethical conduct can guide your decisions and actions. Dead bodies, whether literal or metaphorical, may not always be entirely avoidable, but by living with mindfulness, empathy, and a commitment to serving others, you can strive to leave behind a road to success marked by positive impact and integrity.